- come across
- 1. to do something unwillingly under coercionIt refers to extortion, bribery, or making a confession:... ask why he had to pay when the other bird didn't come across. (Lavine, 1930)2. to have a casual sexual relationship withAgain acceding to a suggestion, usually from a man, but without any coercion:I can see you now, selling pencils outside the high school, 'cause Alison Taylor won't come across. (R. N. Patterson, 1996/2)3. to defectEspionage jargon, from the actual or figurative passage of a frontier or line of battle:He's defected. He came across and that's that. (Seymour, 1980)
How not to say what you mean: A dictionary of euphemisms. R. W. Holder. 2014.