- self-abuse
- masturbationUsually by a male, from the supposition that he may be damaging his body or soul — or go blind. Also as self-gratification, self-indulgence, or self-manipulation:. . . two of them being pretty hopeless cases through self-abuse. (F. Richards, 1936)Nor would loutish self-gratification quail this imperious, feverish desire (Styron, 1976)Pandora says she is not going to risk being a single parent... So I shall have to fall back on self-indulgence. (Townsend, 1982)I have started to become obsessed by sex.I have fallen to self-manipulation quite a lot lately. (Townsend, 1984)Self-pollution and self-pleasuring are obsolete. Self-love usually refers to female masturbation, but without any implication of narcissism.
How not to say what you mean: A dictionary of euphemisms. R. W. Holder. 2014.